Benefits of Being Single

There are so many plus points in being single. This is coming from a person, who has been single for quite some time now so you can trust me on this one. Being in a relationship is not a need, it’s is a want/will. What you need is giving yourself the same amount of love and pampering, as you would expect from a significant other. Yeh… you can do everything by yourself that someone else can do for you emotionally. Do you know what is the biggest benefit in that? That you will never let yourself down. A lot of things come along when you are in a relationship. Yes, this is also coming from a person who has been in a relationship for many years. With a lot of happiness that comes from loving someone, it can also bring a lot of sadness. Now if you are single, you will be self-loving, self-caring and not let yourself be sad right? Yeh, there can be a secondary entity who/which can bring you down, but you cannot be the sole reason to be unhappy.

Now talking about the fun things, do you have any idea how fun it is to spend the entire 24 hours to yourself? Focusing on your happiness and self-growth? You are not answerable, and you do not own anyone a justification. You can pursue all your hobbies and interest with all this time in your hands. You do not have to be glued to your phone waiting for the other person’s texts and calls. Nobody’s opinion will influence your decisions. Moreover, you have all this freedom and peace of mind.

To all my single people,

don’t feel bad for being single. Look at the brighter side and enjoy this time and spend it on yourself. Pamper yourself and be there for yourself. Be self-dependent if that’s even a word.

For my single people who are looking or waiting to find their significant other,

quickly enjoy your free time now, because sooner or later you will have a long rollercoaster journey to go through. Just Kidding!

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Now is a single life better than being in a relationship?

There isn’t a concrete answer. With how this world is coming about it has become more and more difficult in finding the right partner. When people do find love, over the years they give up for the differences which build up. So being single is playing safe because you can guarantee yourself happiness. If you want to be in a relationship, it is important to be emotionally, mentally and physically ready and also finding the right partner who you see a bright future with.

Is Staying Single Okay?

Coming from a person who has experienced both sides, it is completely okay to staying single. It is more than okay if you have never been in a relationship. As long as you are happy with yourself and love yourself, you do not need somebody else to complete you. You do not need to depend on somebody else to make you feel happy or feel loved. Finding a significant other in my opinion should not be a need, if at all should be a want.

If you happen to fall in love and willing want to share your love, it should be with someone you want to grow with. Someone you can learn from. Someone who supports you during your good days and bad days. Someone who encourages you and motivates you. More so, someone who helps you grow as an individual. In my books, that is the ideal partner! Because at the end of the day we are different people, each living our journey. How amazing would it be to come across a companion who enhances the beauty in your life? Go for it, if someone comes along your way who wants to share adventures with you. But always remember that can enjoy your present and your future with yourself too.

Speaking from my experience I can say that being single is a lot more peaceful and blissful than being in an unhappy relationship. And it is not easy to find the right person. So, let things take their time and work their ways. All that matters is that you should be happy with yourself.

Give yourself some love and do not wait for somebody else to complete you.

Comment your opinions and let’s discuss more! Let me know if you think if being single is okay or you should find a partner to spend your life with.